Christian young man with a mean wife threatening divorce. What to do?
Question by so tired: Christian young man with a mean wife threatening divorce. What to do?
My wife and I have been married a little more than a year, but have been sleeping in seperate rooms since April (per her request for space). I have never cheated, lied, abused her or lacked in responsibilities and yet she treats me horribly. Her reason is that “she has no feelings for me”. We are both Christians and went through Christian counseling prior to being married. Once we had problems we went back to the counselor who encouraged us to increase our relationship with God. I did so, she did not. In fact she refuses to go to church with me and spends every weekend with her family. I consider divorcing her almost everyday. I have not had sex, a home cooked meal, a hug, a kiss or a kind word since April. I work long hours and this marriage is taking its toll. Any advice from a Christian perspective as to how I can better deal with this situation. I do not believe divorce is an option, but some days I wish she would give me the papers and I would definately sign. thanks
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Answer by sweetgirl
Honey, get on your knees and thank God for this blessing…End it and go on with you life. Seems to me that God has a plan for you and this one will make you truely happy. DON’T stay with someone who is mean, cause she doesn’t really love you or she would want to suck up each and every breath you breathe. Good luck sweetie….
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Honestly, do you really believe God wants you to continue to suffer in a marriage that your wife does not want to take part in?
While I understand you don’t want to get a divorce bc so many people use it as a way out now a days, but I think you should also be realistic about what your saying, Its not as if you are not trying, but if she is unwilling to try than you don’t have much of a marriage. The thing is, your marriage can fail whether get a divorce or not, and unfortunatley you seem to content with that. I think you really need to do some soul searching and find out why.
Good Luck!
Pray that God sends her away quickly. He will find you someone that will treat you better. Let her go
I am not a big fan of casual divorce, but in this case, your wife has essentially already ended the marriage. You might as well finish the job. You’ve tried counseling, and that didn’t work. You deserve a chance to make a life with a woman who shares your values and values your companionship and company.
Divorce is always an option. My father was a minister for 60 years. I was raised in the church. Don’t believe the religious stupidity. Believe the BIBLE. It says that if a sinner (I.E. your wife since she refuses to develop a relationship with God and follow the head of the household in attendance to church) wishes to leave, let them leave and you are in no way bound to them. You are free to remarry without consequence and with the Blessings from God and the Bible. You need to ask her what she wants to do. If she wants a divorce, go file paperwork and get it over with. Don’t let religion stand in the way of your relationship with God.
IF YOU ARE A RELIGOUIS FREAK DONT FORCE HER TO BE ONE TO. LET HER GO BECAUSE YOU TWO ARE NOT ON THE SAME WAVE LENGTH